The Unsexy Course

For men and women who are done feeling; less than, too much and who want a playground of more authentic connection

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Be sexy, be cool, get men to look at you, have women desire you, do this to get a mate, follow these steps to get a partner. BARF!!!! These messages have been shoved in our faces forever. And they are all created to make you feel NOT ENOUGH, or they are made to make you feel TOO MUCH.

  • Do you not make enough money?
  • Do you not have a model body?
  • Are you too hairy?
  • Are you too sensitive?
  • Do you need too much validation?
  • Have you been alone for too long, so fuck it, you're better off alone?
  • Are you comfortable being lonely?
  • Are you too nice?
  • Are you too quiet?
  • Do you not speak up?
  • Do you think you smell?
  • Do you have too many issues?

ENOUGH!!!! This course will bring you to a place where you can consider that you are exactly where you need to be, and that it's actually possible that you can consider that someone will see you as a great romantic partner or friend with benefits, or lover, or companion.

YES! Even if you don't lose 20 pounds, get full laser treatment, stay awkward, sometimes ramble your words, feel insecure with your sexuality, you too can connect on deep levels exactly as you are.

This course will get your mind and body understanding each other, noticing when they are not understanding each other, and then realizing why and how to connect to another needs mind and body to communicate. This is fun, informational and can be life changing if you're open to it, committed and willing to show up.

You'll learn:

  • Effective communication to use during tense moments; stressful, turned on, weird, awkward and intense
  • How to connect with anyone anywhere
  • To listen for depth in the most shallow of moments
  • How to use play, innocence and curiosity to move out of stuck moments
  • To practice embodied vulnerability that is SO SIMPLE, you'll feel like a ninja

Why is this course free?

This course is free, because this work is needed in the world, especially right now. I personally heal from offering what I have learned. If I hold out for money only, I would implode! I LOVE witnessing human beings who are hungry get nourished on this energy. SO ENJOY! Invite your friends, invite someone you have a crush on! Invite someone who you know needs connection

What if I want more support than the free course?

Starting immediately is the VIP track, this means during the free course, where everyone is on the facebook LIVE, you will be on zoom with me LIVE, and then after each class, we have private time together in an intimate group, where we practice the tools and have a Q&A. You can sign up for this at the bottom of this page. It's $126.00


We meet in the Relational Embodied Intimacy Group JOIN HERE that is where ALL THE CLASSES take place. If you are a VIP then you will get the ZOOM link, the zoom will be broadcast in the facebook group, and then placed in this course. Recordings will stay here in the Awkward Academy.

Each day I'll come on live in the fb group and give class. There will be invites in the group.

We begin at the kick off event on June 13th 7pm EST and the first class is Unsexy Saturday June 14th EST. These will be posted in the group. All the information is there in the group. The replays will also be available in the group, it's best to show up live and if you cannot, make sure you catch up before the next live class.

What you need to get started: Not much, show up live, and have in mind, what you would like to get out of this course. You can have a notebook if you are a note taker.


Your Instructor


Enchantress Shane
Enchantress Shane

Enchantress Shane is a spiritual teacher, behaviorist, community leader, educator and guide for women and men who need support, coping skills and mindset shifts to life can be lived with more ease, empowerment and connection. She coaches women and men privately, in groups, at retreats, workshops and conferences. Shane knows that the masculine and feminine wounding that is part of this society's programming, can be temporary and is passionate about supporting those that are willing to work with their shadows. She guides people to feel safe being seen in their intimacy, passions, and creativity. To reach out to Shane and her team email: [email protected]


Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.

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